Get the vibes — and the romance — flowing!
Women love romance and its
mysterious nature. There's something about those intimate gestures of true love
and deep affection from the one who gets our emotions flowing that stirs up our
most passionate nature in an instant.
When a man goes out of his way to
make sure the woman, he loves knows he was thinking of her when she wasn't
around and there was no special occasion he needed to remember, it reminds
her of exactly what is was that made her swoon when they first fell for each
other.
Romantic expressions may be grand
or expensive, but they certainly don't need to be.
The word romantic originated
in the seventeenth century when it was used to describe imagination
and inventiveness in English storytelling as well as characterizing scenery and
paintings.
But what is romance, and what do
women mean when they talk about "being romantic"?
Romance is what makes the love
between two people so damn amazing. It's what draws the distinguishing line
between this relationship and all others in each of your lives.
So when a woman asks you to be
more romantic, she isn't asking you to spend more money, to do something
spectacular, or to pretend to be old-fashioned in some way you're not.
For most women, being romantic
means going out of your way to express tenderness.
It means revealing to her what
you already know yourself — that there's something about her that brings out a
part of you no one else gets to see.
Being romantic means that as busy
as you are, you will always make time — whatever time you can spare — to show
her you are there for her and will continue to be.
Being romantic means you are
willing to put yourself in an awkward position at times in order to grow with
her, for her, and for yourself.
Being romantic means showing her
that even though you know she is capable of taking care of herself, you want to
take care of her in your own ways — and you want to let her take care of you
right back.
There are endless ways to add
romance and spice to your relationship in ways that remind her that you
cherish, love, and want her (all of which will be returned to you in spades!).
If you want to be more romantic,
try taking a hint from this list of 25 examples to show her you understand what
romance means to a woman.
25 Examples of Romance
1. Take her for a long walk and
talk along the beach.
2. Go out of your way to spend
time with her on a day you normally wouldn't.
3. Invite her to slow dance with
you in the living room.
4. Bake cookies for her when
there is no special reason to at all.
5. Make the first move.
6. Kiss her on the forehead.
7. Help out with chores she
typically takes on.
8. Embrace her in a warm hug from
behind.
9. Send her sweet text messages
to wake up to in the morning and fall asleep to at night.
10. Cook her a delicious meal at
home.
11. Order in her favorite dessert
and eat it together while watching a romantic movie.
12. Rub her feet, calves, arms,
hands, and neck (without expecting anything in return).
13. Stock up the kitchen with her
favorite snacks.
14. Wear her favorite cologne,
even when there's no reason to other than that she loves the way it smells on
you.
15. Plan a playful night of board
games for just the two of you.
16. Write little love notes and
put them where she can find them unexpectedly, like in her makeup drawer, her
pocket, the glove compartment of the car, etc.
17. Let her sleep in while you
play with the kids and make breakfast
18.
Know how she likes her coffee (and make it or get it for her).
19.
Make eye contact with her and hold her hand while you talk over dinner.
20. Sit
next to her in the booth or on the same side of the table when you go out to a
restaurant so you can snuggle as you chat and eat.
21.
Sing (or play) her a song that reminds you of her when she's not around.
22.
Make the bed while she's in the shower.
23.
Take photos with each other that are meant for just the two of you.
24.
Take her out stargazing.
25.
Show up with champagne for no reason at all.
Aria
Gmitter, M.S, M.F.A.,
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