The 11 Things We Wish Guys Would Do More Often

On Glamour Magazine there is an article that at the top it says something about how men aren’t so different from women after all, because all they really want at the end of the day is to be pampered and loved! So apparently (according to the article) your man wants you to remind him how hot he is, relinquish control of the remote, pick up the tabs and giving him frequent massages and blow jobs. What fun!

The list is honest and endearing, but there’s one major problem: most women don’t receive half of these courtesies in return. So now that Glamour’s gotten the convo started, here are some things I wish guys would do more often:

1. Leave us be while watching the Hills, Sex and the City, Keeping up with Kardashians etc.

No need for the mockery, gentlemen. How about we call a truce? We’ll leave you be with your fantasy football, FIFA and ESPN, you leave us be with Speidi (my, what a frightening thought).

2. Try complimenting something other than our cleavage

There’s more to us than our boobs, you know. Why not take notice when we dominate an exam or when you see how hard we’re working at reaching our fitness goals at the gym?

3. Go down there

Blow jobs are be like flowers for guys and the lost art of cunnilingus is like diamonds to us ladies. Show our nether regions a little love, will ya?

4. Lie to make our parents love you
Life is just so much easier without my father knowing how you really spend your free time…

5. Surprise us

Spontaneity somehow never gets old. But dinner, Netflix and making out in the corner of a frat party does.

6. Actually attempt to read/understand the directions in advance instead of always relying on that “manly wit” of yours.

When you complete a task without breaking something/hurting yourself, you will be rewarded.

7. Cook for us
There’s something about a man in apron that just always gets me going! And seeing how hard you worked, despite the outcome, is something we’ll always appreciate.

8. Make an effort with our friends

They can be your biggest advocate or adversary (both behind your back, of course) so please just try to show them why it is we love you so much.

9. Open a door or two, here and there
Because chivalry can be sexy as hell.

10. Accurately aim into the toilet instead of on the seat for a change
Must we really ask this?!

11. This one’s for you to decide
What do you wish guys would do more often? Sound off below!

By Relationships  Mel

5 formas de sexo que siempre debes practicar ....

¿Acaso hay más de una? Por supuesto. Lee este artículo y descubre si ya las has experimentado todas. Serás mejor amante, compañero/a y tendrás mejores resultados en tus relaciones.


Sexo. Mucha gente cree que el tener sexo con su pareja refleja que son felices. Pero, ¿has probado todas las formas de sexo que existen? No me refiero al sexo en diferentes posiciones, lugares o con diferentes personas. Me refiero a cómo ciertas experiencias sexuales te ayudan a crecer como persona, o a mejorar una relación. Tampoco me refiero a la rivalidad que se generará entre parejas. Puedes tener experiencias interesantes durante diferentes relaciones en tu vida. Verifica y confirma que ya hayas experimentado todas. Y si no es así, considera darles una oportunidad cuando se presenten. ¡Disfruta de sus beneficios

Forma 1: El sexo que has estado esperando

Algunas veces, en el reinado del sexo, las cosas buenas sólo les llegan a las personas que esperan. No sólo esperar un rato te da tiempo de conocer y de confiar más en tu pareja. También permite que la tensión sexual se acumule en altos niveles. De esta forma, cuando lo llevas acabo, el sexo es increíble. Derek, un chico de 24 años de Cork, PA, descubrió esto después de haber salido con mujeres que querían esperar un tiempo antes de saltar a la cama. “No me malinterpreten, yo quería tener acción mucho antes”, dice Derek. “Esperé para algo mejor, y cuando finalmente lo hicimos, ella pudo entregarse por completo. Yo había demostrado paciencia, y ahora ella pensaba que me lo merecía.” Algo muy importante: Asegúrate de que tus intereses de amor reflejen que la falta de sexo no está relacionada con falta de interés hacia la persona. Lleva esto a cabo diciendo algo como: “Realmente me gustas y me atraes mucho, pero no me sentiría cómodo teniendo sexo sino hasta que nos conozcamos mejor.” Cualquier persona con un poco de cerebro frenará su impulso y estará de acuerdo.

Forma 2: Sexo con alguien que aun no conoces muy bien

Estos encuentros son conocidos como las citas de una sola noche. El sexo con alguien que no conoces puede compararse con un buen periodo vacacional; emocionante, breve y libre de preocupaciones. Tal vez lo has tenido con alguien con quien has salido un par de veces, y sabes que no hay futuro en la relación, o con alguien que no es tu tipo, sólo para variarle un poco y salir de la monotonía. Es solamente sexo, sin importar si es de 5 estrellas o si resulta una terrible experiencia. Puede llegarse a convertir en un gran recuerdo y comentarlo con tus amigos/as por años. Para cualquier ocasión, sólo recuerda mantenerlo seguro. Utiliza condón, limita la cantidad de alcohol que ingerirás antes de hacerlo y no abandones tu sentido común. No trato de decir que tengas sexo con cualquier desconocido. ¡Por supuesto, si tienes dudas no lo hagas! Mientras que el sexo casual no es para todos, para muchos es liberador. Con sólo saber que puedes disfrutar de una noche de pasión, sin involucrar las responsabilidades de una relación formal, resulta excitante. De hecho, un momento perfecto para intentar esto es justo después de haber salido de una relación larga, cuando aún no estás listo para comenzar de nuevo con algo serio.
Pregúntenle a Shira, instructora de yoga de 30 años de Somerset, PA: “Este tipo de encuentros fueron importantes para mí durante el periodo de mi divorcio”, comenta ella. “Cuando hago esto, es generalmente porque no estoy buscando una relación formal. Simplemente necesito divertirme y por eso lo hago”.

Forma 3: Sexo de reconciliación

Tarde o temprano todas las parejas pelean y al final sólo tienen dos opciones: a) ignorar a su pareja y esperar a que las cosas se calmen, o b) convertir las uvas agrias en un buen vino y disfrutar de un buen sexo de reconciliación. Primero que nada, es muy excitante. Segundo, es la manera más fácil de canalizar tu enojo. Es una herramienta muy poderosa que las parejas deberían utilizar constantemente. “Mi novio y yo peleamos regularmente. Honestamente creo que el sexo de reconciliación es sanador y necesario”, dice Shira. “El sexo refuerza nuestro amor y la necesidad del uno hacia el otro. Es por esto que seguimos juntos. Tratamos de hacer que las cosas funcionen sin importar el esfuerzo. Cuando estoy devuelta en sus brazos, después de una fuerte discusión, me siento segura y con una sensación inmensa de alivio.”

Forma 4: Sexo hacia una sola dirección

La frase: “Es mejor dar que recibir” es todo un cliché. Tarde o temprano todos deben decirle a su pareja: “Recuéstate y no muevas un solo dedo. Esta noche yo te voy a complacer”. Te explicamos por qué. Para empezar, simple y sencillamente es algo muy grato y hará que tu pareja se sienta realmente deseado/a y consentido/a. Éste fue precisamente el caso de Carol, estudiante graduada de 32 años, de Ocean City, MD. “El amor de mi vida es increíble en muchas formas. Es lindo, generoso y consciente”, dice ella. “Una noche decidí sorprenderlo con un nuevo atuendo muy sexy. Prendí algunas velas y frote mis manos con una loción que a él le fascina. No lo dejaba hacer absolutamente nada para complacerme. Todo era para él. Fue una experiencia muy erótica para ambos, y una forma de demostrarle que disfruto complacerlo, al igual que yo disfruto ser complacida.” Existen grandes beneficios en esta forma de sexo: a) te permite enfocarte en excitar a tu pareja, y b) te da oportunidad para tomar notas que mejorarán tu vida sexual a largo plazo.

Forma 5: Sexo intentando algo nuevo (No necesariamente debe ser exitoso)

Intenta alguna posición sexual que desafíe las leyes de la gravedad. Tal vez sexo rápido, no muy ingenioso y en lugares pequeños. ¿Qué es lo que impulsa a los amantes a intentar hazañas sexuales que están destinadas al fracaso? Simple, aunque sea desastroso, ¡es divertido! Además, es una experiencia que une a cualquier pareja. Preguntémosle a Steve, un joven escritor de 35 años de Nueva Cork. “Intentamos usar jarabe de chocolate sobre nuestros cuerpos en la cama. ¡Qué lío!”, comenta él. “Hacía un poco de calor en esas fechas, y al día siguiente parecía como si uno de nosotros hubiera tenido un accidente automovilístico. No importa, tuvo sus beneficios. Aprendimos que la fantasía es a veces mejor que la realidad, y nos reímos de esto por un buen rato. Honestamente, yo pienso que la experiencia nos acercó aún más, pues nos mostró que podíamos reírnos de nosotros mismos.“ Si hay algo que te de curiosidad intentar, ¡inténtalo! Aun si fue un éxito, o alguno de esos momentos en los que dices: “No, no lo volveremos a intentar”, siempre terminará siendo una situación de ganar-ganar, sin importar lo que pase. ¡Esto los acercará más!

Por la La Dra. Yvonne K. Fullbright es sexóloga, personalidad de TV y autora de “Sexo con tu ex y otras 69 cosas que nunca debes hacer”. También es la anfitriona del programa: “Archivos de sexo” de Sirius Maxim y experta sexual para el programa “Comcast: Citas en demanda”.

5 Ways You Can Celebrate Masturbation Month

Here are 5 great -- and easy! -- ways you can celebrate Masturbation Month this year:

1. Buy a Sex Toy. Then Use It. Alone.

They're not scary and they're not just for girls.

Ladies, try out a vibrator on your clit (if you haven't already) and if you're looking for some next-level shit try using an insertable sex toy (aka dildo) while you buzz your bean -- anything solid and pretty, it doesn't have to vibrate! The filled-up feeling can intensify your orgasm, and stretching things out down there will help make the folds surrounding your clitoris (aka the "hood") even more sensitive.

Gents, try out a Fleshlight or something that makes your hand as vaginal as possible. Smooth, stretchy materials are ideal and if you want something you can use over and over stick to something made of silicone. Jelly toys are functional but get gooey, lint-y and can turn into goop over time.

2. Masturbate in Public (But Be Smart About It.)

Easier said than done but odds are, most of you have tried it at least once. Some jerk it in traffic, others excuse themselves to the restroom for a quick break. Don't break any laws (duh) but see what you can get away with outside of your thin apartment walls.

3. Masturbate Each Other (For You Relationship Types)

For those of you with a better half, take a break from inserting yourselves into each other and try mutual masturbation. Not only is it fun, exhilarating and useful for strengthening communication skills in the bedroom ("Up to the left, a little more, stop..no no keep going OHGODYES!") it also is an incredible way to build intimacy between partners. Wear yourself out.

4. Diddle Yourself to Sleep
Put away the melatonin and give that Ambien a break (you don't need to sleepwalk tonight). Having a good, solid orgasm is an amazing way to calm nerves, settle your thoughts, and lull your mind to a peaceful sleep.

5. Test Your Endurance
See how many orgasms you can have in one day, and how many different ways they can come. (Pun intended.) It's a great way to have a great day, but also lets you explore your body and the different ways it responds (and doesn't) to stimulation.
By the time you're ready for bed you'll either be exhausted, elated or enlightened with new-found knowledge (probably all three) and looking forward to the next day...and the next...and the next.

Female Anatomy Guide

While some guys have been educated in female anatomy and in the practice of pleasing a woman, most guys fumble around like a donkey on ice skates trying to find a way -- any way -- to get her to reach orgasm.

Today is your lucky day if you're a part of the latter group because you're going to learn the ins and outs of the female anatomy and how to give her orgasms. So, let's start at the top, shall we?

the clitoris

What is the clitoris?

The clitoris is a small, bud-like formation located where the top of the inner vaginal lips (inner labia) meet. It usually conceals itself under a small hood of skin, but when a woman becomes sexually aroused the clitoris expands and emerges from the female anatomy.

The clitoris is a primary source of erotic stimulation, and most women can achieve a clitoral orgasm more easily than a G-spot orgasm. Believe it or not, the clitoris is the biological equivalent of the male penis. That's right, for the first few months after conception the genitalia of male and female fetuses seem to be identical.

How is the clitoris stimulated?

You will have to start with some gentle and careful experimentation with this delicate piece of female anatomy -- meaning that you shouldn't scratch, grind, bite or squeeze it.

Use your fingers: The idea is to excite your partner. Simply use your clean and nail-trimmed finger(s) to softly rub her clitoris. You will know that you're doing it right when her vaginal area becomes lubricated and her clitoris expands into a firm little bud.

Use your tongue: If you haven't gotten into the cunnilingus program yet, it's high time that you do. Use the tip of your tongue to lightly lick her clitoris and other parts of her vagina if you wish. When you are able to orally please her to the point that she begins to moan and groan with delight, you can get a little more aggressive with your tongue.

Use your penis: Yes, you can use your penis to tease and taunt her until she can't take it anymore. Rub the tip of your penis against her clitoris and watch her writhe with pleasure.

Buy her a little present: If all else fails, and she just can't seem to go over the edge, try a product that will help her reach orgasm quickly. One such product is Vitara, and it is guaranteed to make her orgasm.

female ejaculation

Can women really ejaculate? Believe it or not, many women have ability to ejaculate, but because they either feel like they are about to urinate or they have been belittled by ignorant men who accused them of doing so, they hold back.

It is possible, however, that some women may lose control of their bladders due to extreme sexual stimulation, but ejaculate is something totally different from urine. Actual chemical analysis of the whitish fluid proves that it is quite similar to the fluid produced by the male prostate.

 

 

What is female ejaculation?

Female ejaculation is the expulsion of fluid from or around the urethra. Again, the fluid is not urine and is usually followed by an extremely powerful orgasm (yes, even more powerful than ours).

How do I get her to ejaculate?

Constant stimulation of her G-spot will usually help her to achieve this amazing feat. As well, she has to feel comfortable and trust you enough to let loose and give in with complete abandon.

Because many women often experience the urge to ejaculate, but hold back because they fear that urine will come gushing out, you'll have to encourage her to go with the sensation.

The majority of women experience a release of fluid from the Skene's glands during ejaculation. These glands are made from specialized tissue that surround the urethra.

The amount of fluid that is released during ejaculation will vary from woman to woman, which explains why some women seem to gush while others only blush. Again, please keep in mind that not all women have the ability to ejaculate. Even when it comes to women who do have this gift, it's not something that takes place every time they experience orgasm.

vaginal lips

Yes, we've all heard endless jokes about how men have two heads and women have two pairs of lips. The truth is, however, that women have three sets of lips; one up top and two down below.

Although they are commonly referred to as the inner and outer lips, the proper terms for these wonderful tissues of flesh are labia major and labia minor.

What are the labia?

The labia major (the outer lips) cover the vulva (the entire vagina) and protect it from the ugly bacteria of the outside world. Another factoid that might blow you away is that her vagina is much, much cleaner than your mouth. The lips extend from the mons pubis (the area over the pubic bone) to the perineum (the spot between where the lips end and the anus begins).

The labia minor (the inner lips) enclose the urethra and the vagina. During sexual arousal -- which we're hoping will occur often -- the inner lips become engorged with blood.

 

What is female ejaculation?

Female ejaculation is the expulsion of fluid from or around the urethra. Again, the fluid is not urine and is usually followed by an extremely powerful orgasm (yes, even more powerful than ours).

How do I get her to ejaculate?

Constant stimulation of her G-spot will usually help her to achieve this amazing feat. As well, she has to feel comfortable and trust you enough to let loose and give in with complete abandon.

Because many women often experience the urge to ejaculate, but hold back because they fear that urine will come gushing out, you'll have to encourage her to go with the sensation.

The majority of women experience a release of fluid from the Skene's glands during ejaculation. These glands are made from specialized tissue that surround the urethra.

The amount of fluid that is released during ejaculation will vary from woman to woman, which explains why some women seem to gush while others only blush. Again, please keep in mind that not all women have the ability to ejaculate. Even when it comes to women who do have this gift, it's not something that takes place every time they experience orgasm.

vaginal lips

Yes, we've all heard endless jokes about how men have two heads and women have two pairs of lips. The truth is, however, that women have three sets of lips; one up top and two down below.

Although they are commonly referred to as the inner and outer lips, the proper terms for these wonderful tissues of flesh are labia major and labia minor.

What are the labia?

The labia major (the outer lips) cover the vulva (the entire vagina) and protect it from the ugly bacteria of the outside world. Another factoid that might blow you away is that her vagina is much, much cleaner than your mouth. The lips extend from the mons pubis (the area over the pubic bone) to the perineum (the spot between where the lips end and the anus begins).

The labia minor (the inner lips) enclose the urethra and the vagina. During sexual arousal -- which we're hoping will occur often -- the inner lips become engorged with blood

How are the labia stimulated?
Use your fingers: While you are using your fingers to stimulate her clitoris, you can vary your cadence to stimulate her inner lips. You also have the option of touching her outer lips, but it's usually the fleshy part that will get her juices flowing freely. Don't be shy with your fingers, massage around the area and judge whether or not she's enjoying it by her vocal reactions (or lack thereof).

Roll your tongue: Obviously, plunging into her inner lips after you've done your duty on her clitoris is great. But jumping onto the outer lips is recommended only if she's trim or shaved. There's nothing like the sound of hearing a partner trying to cough up a pubic hair.

Use your penis: Place your penis between her inner lips and move it up and down. The warm welcoming feeling will arouse the both of you immensely and work you up to go in for the kill.

the elusive g-spot

I can't begin to count the amount of e-mail that I receive from both men and women trying to figure out where the most famed spot on a woman's body is located. You'd think that it was one of the Seven Wonders of the World.

While it is true that some experts believe this tantalizing spot to be nothing more than a myth, most believe that it does exist, yet the location of it varies slightly from woman to woman.

What is the G-spot?

The Grafenberg spot is an area on the front wall (toward the tummy) of the vagina, between the opening and the cervix. Theory dictates that the G-spot can be one of two things: a bundle of nerves coming from the clitoris or a gland (or series of glands) that produces lubrication. Don't worry, guys; men also have a G-spot -- the prostate gland.

Now, while all women own a spot with a G, not all of them find G-spot stimulation pleasurable. Just as with the clitoris, some women are more than eager, while others do not like it whatsoever.

How do I find and stimulate the G-spot?

Use your fingers: Insert a finger (or two) into the vagina with your palm facing her mons pubis. Gently bend your fingers toward her belly button until you feel an area of flesh that is rough.

Now keep in mind that your woman may find this extremely pleasurable or the extreme opposite. If you continue to stroke this spot with varying degrees of pressure, it is quite possible that you'll be hitting the jackpot soon enough.

Use your penis: If she's lying on her back (missionary), it's unlikely that the penis will hit the front wall and thus will not yield the big orgasm, unless of course the angle of your erect member curves upward.

For the rest of you, you'll have a much better chance of hitting her G-spot if you put her legs over your shoulders while penetrating her. You can also achieve contact with the G-spot in the spoon position, in the doggy-style position or by making her knees and shoulders meet .

The objective of G-spot stimulation is to have her genitals higher than the other parts of her body. Again, keep in mind that all women are different -- while your ex may have been an ejaculating G-spot Olympian, your current girlfriend may not be. Don't keep exploring with your fingers until you get carpal tunnel syndrome.

all that matters

OK, so perhaps you didn't get all the nitty-gritty fallopian explanations, but you sure did learn a thing or two about her waterworks and how to satisfy her more adequately. Remember: Keep sex fun and always make her feel like a woman, not a biology experiment.

What's important to remember is that there are all kinds of variations of orgasms, including rare vaginal ones that don't require G-spot or clitoral stimulation. What works for her, what feels good and what's satisfying at any given moment is what really counts.

With time, you will get to know and understand what your woman likes and the two of you will start delving into the wide world of sexual sports.

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Understanding The Clitoris

 If we told you that there was a way to make a woman putty in your hands, would you listen? Guess what, guys: We've figured out exactly what it takes to satisfy a woman -- in the bedroom at least. You might think that a few kisses and the presentation of your proud erect member might be enough to make her quiver, but you might be missing the most important factor in your, and your woman's, sexual satisfaction.

Women have so many erogenous zones that it can get a little overwhelming for a guy trying to figure out the magic combination to her satisfaction. You've already gotten a play-by-play overview of the most popular -- her G-spot -- so now it's time to fully consider the never-fail, go-to spot for her orgasm. It's time to focus on the most important square inch on her body: her clitoris. Understanding the clitoris is the key to a woman eager to come back for more. Get comfortable and pay attention, here's everything you need to know when it comes to understanding the clitoris.

about the clitoris

Just in case you need a refresher course, here are the basic facts: Her clitoris is a small bud-like formation that is located slightly above the opening to her vagina, at the top of her inner labia. Clitoris size and shape differs from woman to woman, but it is generally between 1/8 to 3/8 of an inch in size. Her clitoris is the equivalent of your penis; it's packed with nerve endings and becomes engorged when she's aroused.

Vital info: The vast majority of women require clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm -- penetration just isn't always enough on its own. Sounds like a good enough reason to makes its acquaintance, doesn't it?

how to play with it

Language

Sexual stimulation is largely a cerebral activity for women; turning her on requires attention to her brain, not just her body. Even if you and your woman have yet to venture into talking dirty to each other, rest assured that whispering in her ear about what you plan on doing to her, or how turned on you are, can be enough to get her wanting more. The more aroused you can get her before the clothes come off, the easier your next job will be and this is key to understanding the clitoris.

Fingers

It goes without saying that clean hands and neat fingernails are key if you plan on going exploring, but what you might not realize is that diving in and honing in on her clitoris to start with might not be your best plan of attack. Your fingers are nimble: use them to your advantage. Stroke her thighs on your way and caress the areas on either side of her clitoris, including her labia, before gently making the first contact. A lot of women may find direct pressure uncomfortable, so try aiming just below or just above her clitoris and making small circular movements. Because the clitoris actually extends well into her entire pelvic region, rest assured that her enjoyment will only be enhanced by full manual coverage.

Just a note on pressure: Be sure not to get too rough with her sensitive areas before you get to know what she likes and are clear on your understanding of the clitoris. A light touch will be more successful on most women, and those who need a little more are probably going to get frustrated with your restraint and beg for a harder touch. Sounds like a win-win situation to us.

 Understanding the clitoris is the sign of a man that is invested in his partner and her pleasure, both of which are noble qualities. Even though it seems like a bit of a mystery, there's nothing to be afraid of, and many things to gain, namely a happy and satisfied woman. And remember, a satisfied woman is going to be more interested in making sure that you're satisfied too, and you can't ask for more than that.

Vibrator

We're sure you've all heard about how your girl's vibrator can be your best friend. Her battery-powered playthings can definitely help you be in more places at once, which is always a good thing. However, have you thought about ways to ensure clitoral stimulation during intercourse? Lining up your pubic bone to hit her in the right spot can be difficult to figure out and having her "help out" while you penetrate means that she has less hands available to be all over you, so why not try the newest vibrating product to help you both out? Many companies now offer stretchy rings that you can slide onto your member that come with the added bonus of a small knobby protrusion with vibrating capabilities that can ensure an extra boost for her with every thrust.

Lubricants

The focus of a lot of creams and sexual potions usually centers on the tingling effect or the numbing effect, depending on what you're looking for. While it's true that lubrication is key to making her experience pleasure rather than discomfort when you tackle her clitoris, it's best not to get too caught up in the newest, most flavorful or scientifically superior bottle on the shelf. A plain old personal lubricant on its own can be your best friend when it comes to ensuring an optimal experience for your partner. Don't believe us? Try masturbating with no slippery aid. Enough said.

Mouth

All women appreciate that you've decided to get up close and personal -- really, they do -- and your mouth (and tongue) are your best aids to helping her achieve an earth-shattering orgasm every time. The built-in lubrication and warmth are obvious pros in favor of oral sex, as is your ability to mix up the sensations with your lips and tongue teamwork. If you're looking to move past the basic flick and swirl and show that you really understand the clitoris, try creating a bit of suction by taking her clitoris into your mouth with some gentle sucking or pulling away when she's close to orgasm, and gently blowing on it to heighten her sensation and prolong the encounter.

Penis

We don't want to ignore your favorite sex toy when we're discussing her orgasm and understanding the clitoris; your penis can get in the game and help out during foreplay to really get her going as well. During intercourse, your member might not get too much face time with her clitoris, so it's worth taking a bit of time to introduce them -- they're sure to be fast friends. Before sex, why not try having your woman lay on her back with her legs clamped together tightly (on her stomach works too) and slide your member between her legs right where they meet with her pelvis. Moving back and forth in this position lets your penis rub between her labia and, more importantly, directly over her clitoris. Not only does this trick feel great for both of you, it's sure to heighten your collective arousal and result in possible orgasms for everyone.

no longer so elusive…

Understanding the clitoris is the sign of a man that is invested in his partner and her pleasure, both of which are noble qualities. Even though it seems like a bit of a mystery, there's nothing to be afraid of, and many things to gain, namely a happy and satisfied woman. And remember, a satisfied woman is going to be more interested in making sure that you're satisfied too, and you can't ask for more than that.

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